Wednesday, June 1, 2016



The following is the short story I submitted to the ADN/UAA contest. It is a non-fiction story about a woman who struggles with Alzheimer's. Ana, who appears at the end, is the only "real" person in the story.

Between Here and There
By Melanya Berg
 
            Constance woke with a start. Her heart was racing as she tried to reorient herself to her surroundings. Just for a moment she didn’t know where she was. The remnants of a dream were still vivid, like a flash from a movie scene. There had been a house on a sunny street with a Red Flyer wagon in the yard. Pink and red roses bloomed recklessly next to the walkway leading to the front door and the scent of overblown blooms still lingered in her nose. She had the sense that she belonged there and yet, she didn’t recognize the house, the wagon or the small child that looked up at her with brimming eyes, holding a skinned knee and crying, “Mommy, mommy, there’s blood.” It was all so confusing. As she looked around the room, Constance’ heart slowed, the dream receded and the familiar ache of her aging hips and lower back reminded her that she had sat to rest for a few moments after her morning chores.
At seventy-five everyday chores had become challenging, and today Constance wanted her home to look as if the work was accomplished effortlessly. Her daughter, was bringing lunch at noon, and she would be looking for signs that Constance needed “help.” There was no denying that Constance had found herself locked out of her house in slippers and housecoat one morning. She had thought she had heard Charlotte, her old cat, mewing as if in distress and had gone out into the yard to find her, forgetting that Charlotte had died the week before. A neighbor had noticed her standing in the driveway, feet damp with dew and shivering, looking lost and forlorn. The young woman had invited her into her kitchen, offered her a cup of coffee and called Lindsay. Constance couldn’t help but hear her annoyed tone at the inconvenience of being late for work.
Now the table was set for two, oolong tea was steeping in the china pot and Constance had taken extra care with her hair, making sure it wasn’t flat in the back. She didn’t want to give any hint to Lindsay that she had needed a morning nap.
“Mom, you look great today. Are you going somewhere? You don’t usually dress up for me.” Lindsay put the boxes of Chinese food on the table and the smell of garlic, citrus and ginger filled the room. Constance felt hunger pangs and tried to remember if she had eaten breakfast that morning. It didn’t matter, she would make up for it with orange chicken and fried rice.
“No, just staying around the house. I’ll probably take a walk later in the day.” Constance felt a nag of conscience. She had been leading Lindsay to believe she was getting out and walking for exercise on a regular basis, but she had been worried about the loose dogs in the neighborhood, they seemed more numerous and aggressive lately. She was also worried about the high school kids getting off the bus in their odd clothes, their heads constantly bent over cell phones. They never seemed to carry books, and they looked at her with squinted eyes. She didn’t know if they might hurt her, but it was best to stay inside where she was safe.

Lunch had gone beautifully. Lindsay had laughed at Constance’s clever conversation and she felt as if she could relax. As Lindsay rinsed the plates, Constance put leftovers in the refrigerator, “Isn’t this nice? I’ll have leftovers for my dinner tonight,”
“Mom, what is this?” Lindsay pulled a blue envelope from the dishwasher. “Why is the bill from the electric company in your dishwasher?” Constance turned to see Lindsay rip the envelope open. “This is a disconnect notice. Your power will be turned off today at five-o-clock.” The stern look on Lindsay’s face softened as she realized her mother’s embarrassment.
“I don’t know how it got there.” Constance put a hand to her chest, “I don’t remember putting it in there. Why would I put it in the dishwasher?”  She looked around the room quickly to see if there were any other items out of place, perhaps a shoe in the fruit bowl, an egg on the window sill, or a Red Flyer wagon under the table.
Lindsay led her mother to a chair and poured another cup of tea. She sat down and took her hand. “I think it’s time we made an appointment with this doctor I heard about. He specializes in geriatrics.”
Constance laughed a strained laugh, “Why would I need to see him. I’m not sick.” She rose and continued putting food away. She hoped the fear she felt didn’t show on her face. Lately fear had become her constant companion. “Really, Lindsay, I am not a doddering old woman.” She closed the refrigerator and wiped her hands on a towel. “Just because you are going to college now, doesn’t mean you know everything.”
There was a moment of silence while Constance stood defiantly looking down at Lindsay, “Mom, I graduated from college fifteen years ago.”
Constance turned and seemed to deflate against the counter. “I knew that,” she whispered, “I was just confused for a moment.” She put her hand to her forehead, “Oh, Lindsay, I’m so afraid.” 

Again Constance dreamed of the house with the boy. His name was Eric. He gently patted her face and she found herself in a sitting room inside the house. The floor was covered with brown sculpted carpet, and two of the walls were covered in dark wood paneling. It felt like home. She lifted her hand to touch the boy’s golden curls and noticed without alarm that her hand looked young, smooth and well-manicured. “Mommy, I’m hungry. I want jelly toast.”
She turned her head as a man of about thirty-five stepped into the room from a hallway. Just as she had known the boy’s name without being told, she knew this man was her husband and his name was Mark. He was adjusting his tie and asked without looking at her, “Do you think I can get by without shaving, Maeve? Maeve?” He turned, “Not again.” He took her face in his hands, “Maeve, you have got to stay focused, babe. This . . . this drifting has got to stop.” His eyes pleaded with hers. With a sigh and a brush of his thumb over her cheekbone, he turned to the child, “Let’s get some toast, Eric, mom needs to refocus.”
            Constance woke from the dream with her hand on her face, the warmth of Mark’s touch still lingering beneath her fingers. He had called her Maeve and somehow it seemed right, comfortable. She closed her eyes and tried to recapture the moment, but it was gone.

Lindsay expertly drove her car through the daytime traffic while she chatted. Constance knew Lindsay was filling the space between them with ramblings of her dog’s antics and humorous work tales in an effort to avoid the uncomfortable results of the morning’s doctor visit. She found herself noticing every detail of Lindsay’s features. The brown of her hair was ordinary, but the large natural curls falling gently to her shoulders gave it a loveliness that couldn’t be ignored. She had been a pudgy baby and toddler and had turned into a gangly teen and, now at forty, a plump, but attractive woman. Green eyes, a nose that tipped at the end and a slight cleft in her chin were contributions from Constance’ own genetic make-up. Constance had hoped Lindsay would marry and give her grandchildren, but her education and career had preempted that. Lindsay, as a little girl, had filled Constance’ lonely moments after her husband’s early death, and Constance had devoted herself to her. They were more than mother and daughter; they were best friends.
“Mom, are you okay?” Lindsay glanced sideways, taking her eyes from the road ahead.
Constance attempted to swallow, but suddenly her throat seemed very dry and yet her eyes were overflowing with liquid emotion. “I don’t want to forget you.” She could not imagine not remembering the heavy bundle of sleeping baby, the messy pre-teen or the college graduate brimming with pride. At that moment it seemed locked inside of her. Safe. And yet her own mind would become a swirling vortex allowing memories to drain away like sand through an hour glass.  Alzheimer’s, a name almost impossible to remember. Ironic.

“This room smells funny.” Constance held her arms close to her body, “Everything feels sticky.” She looked around the sitting room of the facility with wary eyes. Although the room was sunny, brightly painted and well furnished, the feeling of institution permeated the air. Leaning toward Lindsay she whispered, “These people are old and ill. I don’t fit in here. Take me home.”
            “We are out of options, mother.” Lindsay never called her “mother.” “This is the third and last facility.” Constance watched as Lindsay struggled with irritation and a look she had not seen before. Was that guilt in her eyes? “You know I would move in with you if I could take care of you properly.” She bent and picked up a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that had fallen from a card table onto the floor. The piece revealed one eye, a nose and a bit of curly hair; a fragment of person. She placed it amid the jumble. “I have a job, a new relationship.” She swallowed hard, “I don’t know what else to do.”
            Constance straightened herself to her full height, “Have I ever asked you to take care of me?”
            “No, mom.” The reply was whispered, barely audible.
            “Have I ever asked you to give up any part of your life for mine?” Lindsay looked up, eyes filled with torment and slowly shook her head. Constance turned viewing the room, noting the man slumped in the chair with tubes forcing oxygen into his nose. She watched a woman slowly shuffling in her slippers toward the bedrooms, and watched as a caregiver spoke loudly as she handed out little cups of medication. Her chin dropped momentarily to her chest and she sighed a shuddering breath. How did this happen? When had she gotten so old? A sudden realization came to her: she would die in this place. Again she straightened, and let her arms relax. “I will consider my choices.” She gave Lindsay a withering look, “Now take me home.” She strode toward the door taking care to walk tall and without shuffling. Tomorrow she would acquiesce without struggle, but today she would leave the facility independent and dignified.

Arrangements had been made, the house sold and now strangers rummaged through Constance’ personal belongings, or were they really strangers? “Lindsay, I can’t remember that woman’s name,” Constance looked around frantically for Lindsay. The panic that always seemed to be just under the surface threatened to overtake her.
            “That’s because you don’t know her, mom. She’s here for your garage sale.” Lindsay put down her clip board and put her arm around her mother’s waist. The embrace felt strong and reassuring. For a fleeting moment she was transported to the house on the sunny street. It was Mark’s arm around her and he was laughing as they watched Eric ride his tricycle in tight circles.
            “Now that he’s six, Maeve, maybe we should think about a little brother or sister for him,” Constance turned in his arms and looked into his blue eyes, she tentatively reached a hand to his rough jaw and warm happiness filled her chest,
            “Yes,” she smiled up at him, “we’ll call her Lindsay,” His face began to fade and she stiffened at the sensation of falling.
            “I’m sure she has her own name, mom,” Constance felt Lindsay’s kiss on her cheek, and the yard, the boy and the man were gone. The strange woman smiled and Constance whimpered as she watched her walked away with a china teapot.
           
Waves of confusion washed over Constance’ mind. Who and where was she? Was she Constance or was she Maeve? She looked down at her hands and saw swollen joints, large blue veins and brown spots. “Eric? Where’s Eric?” She looked frantically around. “He’s in the pool alone.”
            “Mom,” Lindsay, took her mother’s paper fragile hands in hers, “It’s me, mom. My name’s Lindsay, remember?”
            “I have to get Eric, he’s too small for the deep end. Help me find my shoes.” Constance tried to stand quickly but found her legs unwilling to move as she demanded. “He’s so little.” She began to weep, tearless and frustrated. “I have to go home; Mark will be so angry with me. I’ve lost my concentration again.” She began searching her through her clothes as if looking for a missing pocket, “My whistle, I need my whistle.”
            “Mom, try to remember,” Lindsay spoke with control, trying to not to reveal her own frustration, “We sold the house years ago and there is no Eric or Mark,” A small sob escaped, “Please, try and remember who I am, just one more time.”
Constance saw herself reflected upside down in the green depths of her daughter’s eyes and was comforted momentarily. Recognition dawned in her eyes, “Why, Lindsay, you know Eric, he’s my baby, you remember that, don’t you?”
            “No, mom, I guess I don’t remember.” Lindsay stroked her mother’s hair and smiled as if she were the parent, “I don’t know where you go, mom, and I’m so afraid one day soon you won’t find your way back to me.”

Maeve felt the heat of the sun on her face and realized her back was turned to the pool. “Eric,” she whispered. She spun around and saw his small body floating face down, fluorescent blue trunks shining in the burning sun. “Oh, God, Eric!” She ran toward the edge of the pool, fear gripping her heart. Dropping to her knees, Maeve reached her hand across the water and frantically pulled Eric toward her. His face rose above the blue and he sputtered and wiped the water from his eyes. “How long did I hold my breath, mommy? Did you count to twenty this time?” Relief replaced panic and Maeve wrapped the small form in a beach towel, holding him close, feeling the cool dampness of him against her own overheated body. A memory of a brown curly head tucked under her chin, a small form shivering and pressing, much like the one she now held surfaced in her mind, “Lindsay,” she whispered.  And then the memory was gone.

Maeve woke herself with a frightened cry. She had dreamed she was old. The smell of urine and antiseptic were so real she found herself on the bathroom floor heaving into the toilet. The feel of the ties holding her to the hospital bed still chafed and she sat on the bathroom floor rubbing her wrists and sobbing. In her dream she had frantically called “Help me! Help me, please!” as she fought against the restraints. Over her own cries, those of her middle-aged daughter, older than she was now, still rang in her ears, desperately begging the orderly to untie her.
            “This is criminal,” Lindsay sobbed as she fumbled with the ties. “Mom, everything is fine, I’m here.” Released at last, Maeve had wrapped her arms around Lindsay’s neck and inhaled deeply the smell of her perfume. The strangely familiar scent let Maeve know this woman who held her oddly frail body and stroked her wild hair was safe.
            “Where am I? I don’t know where I am.” She wove her fingers into Lindsay’s hair, anchoring herself to her. “I don’t belong here. Take me home. I want to go home.”
            Slowly the smell, the chafing and the fear receded and the dream became a vague shadow. Maeve shivered, “Please, God,” she prayed, “I never want to have that dream again.” She washed her face, brushed her teeth and climbed back into bed.
            “Everything okay?” Mark murmured sleepily. He pulled her close and nuzzled her neck.
            “Will you love me when I’m old?” Maeve pulled Mark’s hand to her lips.
            “You know it,” he answered, and began to snore softly.

The sound of gentle rustling woke Constance from a light sleep. She had been dreaming of the boy, Eric, and the man, Mark, almost constantly. But, it had become more than a dream. She still felt the man’s touch on her body and smelled his musky scent. She remembered what story she had read the boy before bed and how she had wiped a smudge of toothpaste from the corner of his mouth with her thumb. Yet, she knew when she opened her eyes she would find herself in a room that was not home, filled with familiar pictures, small pieces of her own furniture and a bouquet of flowers from Lindsay in celebration of her birthday. She had wakened there many times, and often she was filled with confusion and fear, but today, she felt her mind clear and unafraid. Constance stirred and found her joints stiff from lying in one position too long.
“Miss Constance, do you remember me this morning?” Constance opened her eyes and found Ana’s smiling face above her own. She had corn-rowed hair, deep brown skin and black watchful eyes. Her Columbian accent was a soothing contrast to the harshness of the bells and whistles that called and reminded her and the other clients of meals and activities at the convalescent home.
            “Yes, I remember you, Ana.” Ana held a straw to Constance’ lips. She sipped the cool water and she felt her tongue release from the sides of her mouth. “How are your grandchildren?”
            “At three in the morning they are all snug in their beds.” Ana replied, and Constance smiled at the way three became “tree” with a roll of the r. “And why are you awake at such an hour, bright and cheery?”
            “Ana, are you ever torn between your family in Columbia and your family here? Do you wish you could be in both places at once?” Constance struggled to find the button that would raise the bed to a sitting position. Ana patted her hand and placed the padded buttons within her reach. Constance appreciated the way Ana allowed her to do those things she could do for herself. “Ah, yes, baby, I do.” She stroked a white curl from Constance’ forehead.
“How did you choose between here and there?”
“Miss Constance, sometimes the choice is made for us.” Ana smiled revealing large white teeth that glowed softly in the semidarkness, “The trick for me was to know when the struggle was useless and it was time to embrace the adventure of a new life.” Ana tucked in the blankets at the foot of the bed, “As the wise old Preacher says, ‘Tis good that you grasp one thing and let go of the other.’” She offered Constance another sip of water. “In letting go of one, sometimes God lets you keep both.”
“My Lindsay, she will miss me.” Constance’ chin trembled, childlike.
“Yes, she will. But she is strong, like you.” Ana stroked her wispy white hair and kissed her furrowed forehead. She tilted her head and gazed at Constance’s face with understanding. “You will be happy there, Miss Constance, I can feel it in my bones.”

Maeve stood at the kitchen counter with a slice of bread freshly covered with peanut butter and jelly. Eric waited impatiently at the table, swinging his plump legs. Mark came through the back door, Maeve saw him wipe sweat from his face and she knew he had been mowing the lawn. His eyes rested on her belly and she realized her abdomen was swollen with life. Slipping behind her he placed his hands on the child stirring within, kissed Maeve’s neck and asked, “How’s our little Lindsay today?”

Saturday, December 26, 2015

A Few of My Favorite Christmas Day Things…



A Few of My Favorite Christmas Day Things…

1. Realizing dinner did come together despite all the cooking catastrophes. 

2.   My daughter-in-law joyfully putting on her apron and plunging into the after dinner mess.  

3.      Whipped cream on the laughing faces of after-dinner game players (Jolene, you were adorable with whipped cream on your nose, and your sneakiness will live in the “Berg Legends” forever).

4.      The Christmas Story read to the background music, “Let It Go, let it gooooo….” (thank you Mila and Elsa).

5.      Knowing my 7-year-old grandson will choose me when picking a team (thanks, Julian, for believing me when I said, “I am not a spy!”). 

6.      Commiserating with my 5-year-old grandson (Me: Miles, I didn’t get my kitten.  Miles: I didn’t get my bunny either. Miles and Grandma frown in silence. Miles brightens:  Maybe next year you’ll get a bunny and I’ll get a kitten! Grandma brightens: Maybe!) Christmas hope springs eternal.

7.      Truly, holding on to her highchair tray in anticipation of something yummy.

8.      Visitors who bring the chill of the evening, the crisp smell of out of doors and the family dog for a Christmas visit (Masha, Jon, Ethan, Kelly, Wesley and Clancy, it was so wonderful that your Christmas trek included at stop at our home. We hope you found it warm and welcoming.)

9.      A sweet 3-year-old who asks for a nap at 8:00 in the evening (Grandpas and little boys need naps at odd times to keep from being grumpy).

10.   Seeing my youngest son on one knee, asking a beautiful young woman to “share all of his Christmases.” (Congrats to you, TJ and Brooke, may this be the first of many memorable Christmases together).

There are so many more happy moments that are now Christmas 2015 memories. Every person in my family has helped to make my heart full. I have so much to be grateful for.

Melanya's

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